At the penguin house at the Central Park Zoo, two penguins named Roy and Silo were a little bit different from the others. But their desire for a family was the same. With the help of a kindly zookeeper, Roy and Silo got the chance to welcome a baby penguin of their very own. What makes a family?
Are the Fathers Alright? A Systematic and Critical Review of Studies on Gay and Bisexual Fatherhood
A single mom? Two dads? This book talks about all different families because families are what you make them! Two kangaroos, Jack and Sam have a baby by egg donor and surrogacy. This illustrated tale helps young children understand the complicated methods related to their conception in a simple and loving way.
Blood, Marriage, Wine and Glitter. The celebrated essayist sheds necessary and humorous light on gender, sexuality, and family. Bear Bergman is an acclaimed writer and lecturer who travels regularly across North America to speak on trans issues. In his third essay collection, Bear enters, describes, and rearranges our ideas about family as a daughter, husband, father, and friend.
In Bear's extended family "orchard," drag sisters, sperm-donor's parents, Sparkles and other relations provide more branches of love, support, and sustenance than a simple family tree. Christian, the Hugging Lion. From the moment Ace and John brought Christian the lion cub home from a London department store, they knew they had created a special family. But Christian soon grew too big to live with them so Ace and John flew Christian to Africa to live with other lions. A year later they went to visit. Would Christian remember them? With practical wisdom and advice, and personal real-life stories, Lev prepares gay parents for this endeavor with everything they need to know and everything they can expect while making their own significant and challenging mark on family life in the 21st century.
A lively collection of true tales that illuminate and celebrate lesbian parenting from the nonbiological mother's perspective, Confessions of the Other Mother is an exciting collection of personal stories by women who are creating new parenting roles, redefining motherhood, and reshaping our view of two-parent families. This candid peek into a previously unexamined side of lesbian parenting sheds light on the many facets of motherhood, offering gay and straight readers alike a deeper understanding of what it means to love and parent in the twenty-first century.
Effective co-parenting, or sharing significant parenting time with an ex-spouse, is one of the best gifts separated parents can give to their children. The interviews in Co-Parenting from the Inside Out are with real moms and dads in diverse circumstances — including families of children with special needs, same-sex parents, parents with mental illness, parental alienation and high-conflict relations, and more. Their stories offer insights into wise decision-making, showing them making choices, sometimes struggling, and often growing, as well as practical strategies that strengthen families.
Parents can see that they are not alone as they navigate their feelings and build a future. While pain exists in most stories, there is also hope. Co-parents often feel that they have become more confident and compassionate, and parent better than before. Karen Kristjanson has brought together real life co-parenting stories that inspire separated parents and help them understand co-parenting better, offering practical tips and tools that directly benefit diverse families.
Focus is not on being LGBT, but rather two loving parents who just happen to be two men. Daddy, Papa and Me. Rhythmic text and warm illustrations show a toddler spending the day with its daddies. From hide-and-seek to dress-up, then bath time and a kiss goodnight, this sweet boardbook shows that there is no limit to what a loving family can do together.
Confessions of a Gay Dad.
In , Dan Bucatinsky and his partner, Don, found themselves in an L. Donovan's Big Day. When British journalist, memoirist, and New York-transplant Emma Brockes decides to become pregnant, she quickly realizes that, being single, 37, and in the early stages of a same-sex relationship, she's going to have to be untraditional about it.
From the moment she decides to stop "futzing" around, have her eggs counted, and "get cracking"; through multiple trials of IUI, which she is intrigued to learn can be purchased in bulk packages, just like Costco; to the births of her twins, which her girlfriend gamely documents with her iPhone and selfie-stick, Brockes is never any less than bluntly and bracingly honest about her extraordinary journey to motherhood.
Brockes deftly uses her own story to examine how and why an increasing number of women are using fertility treatments in order to become parents — and are doing it solo. Bringing the reader every step of the way with mordant wit and remarkable candor, Brockes shares the frustrations, embarrassments, surprises, and, finally, joys of her momentous and excellent choice. Drawing on a decade of community organizing, and interviews with more than fifty grown sons and daughters of LGBT parents, Abigail Garner addresses such topics as coming out to children, facing homophobia at school, co-parenting with ex-partners, the impact of AIDS, and the children's own sexuality.
Both practical and deeply personal, Families Like Mine provides an invaluable insider's perspective for LGBT parents, their families, and their allies. Gay Dads: a Celebration of Fatherhood. Gay Dads: a Celebration of Fatherhood includes twenty-five personal accounts from men describing their unique journeys to fatherhood and the struggles and successes they have experienced as they raise their children. For most of the men featured in this book, parenthood did not come easily, but the rewards — as you will learn — are immeasurable.
Over 90 percent of new mothers will have scary, intrusive thoughts about their baby and themselves. What if I drop him? What if I snap and hurt my baby? Mothering is so hard — I don't know if I really want to do this anymore. Gosh, I'm so terrible for thinking that! Yet for too many mothers, those thoughts remain secret, hidden away in a place of shame that can quickly grow into anxiety, postpartum depression, and even self-harm.
But here's the good news: you CAN feel better! Author Karen Kleiman — coauthor of the seminal book This Isn't What I Expected and founder of the acclaimed Postpartum Stress Center — comes to the aid of new mothers everywhere with a groundbreaking new source of hope, compassion, and expert help. Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts is packed with world-class guidance, simple exercises, and nearly 50 stigma-busting cartoons from the viral speakthesecret campaign that help new moms validate their feelings, share their fears, and start feeling better.
Lighthearted yet serious, warm yet not sugary, and perfectly portioned for busy moms with full plates, Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts is the go-to resource for moms, partners, and families everywhere who need help with this difficult period. Heather Has Two Mommies. She has two arms, two legs, and two pets. And she also has two mommies. Then something interesting happens. When Heather and her classmates all draw pictures of their families, not one drawing is the same. The perfect starting point for parents of transracially adopted children and those who are considering adopting transracially.
The Interracial Adoption Option is a personal guide to interracial adoption which draws on the lives and experiences of the authors, a white lesbian couple, who adopt two African-American children. Starting from their decision to adopt their first child interracially, it describes the situations and decisions that followed as a result of their child's racial background. The authors' combine their personal experiences with practical advice. An accessible introduction to the complex world of interracial adoption, this book is the first book you need to read if you are thinking of adopting transracially or have done so already.
Same-sex couples have many different options when choosing to have children today.
- Same-sex Parents and Their Children.
- Write Angles?
- TNOD (The Adventures of Arizona Jiminez Book 1).
- AAMFT Research & Education Foundation!
- A Guide for Gay Dads.
- Alker and IR: Global Studies in an Interconnected World (New International Relations).
- The Thing From -- Outside.
Each section includes a description of the specific family-building approach, followed by personal stories from same-sex couples and individuals who have chosen and gone through that particular journey. The appendix contains important legal issues to consider and questions to ask before deciding to move forward, along with a list of reasons why people may choose each of the five family-building paths and the challenges they may encounter. Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood provides a unique combination of inspirational firsthand accounts combined with the critical information, tips and advice needed to help couples successfully navigate the complex road to parenthood.
Reception to follow in the Royal Gardens. Bring lots of presents!! Featuring a spectrum of families from diverse backgrounds, this book reveals the joys and challenges of adoptive and foster parenting. The authors outline how the experience of adopting and fostering has changed for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender LGBT people over the years, major changes in policy, and what the research can tell us about LGBT parenting.
They interview families involved at different stages of the fostering and adoption process, from those undergoing assessments through to the experienced foster carers and adopters who were interviewed for the first edition of this book 20 years previously. While the number of LGBT people adopting or fostering has increased since then, some of the very real challenges still endure — including social stigma, homophobia and discriminatory policies — and families share some of the strategies they have used to help to address them.
This is an essential source of information and advice for same-sex couples and LGBT single parents, as well as social workers, social work educators, sociologists of personal life, fostering and adoption panel members. The Lesbian Parenting Book has been updated to reflect the contemporary cultural and political landscape, as well as current trends in parenting.
This practical and extensive guide covers topics from how to get pregnant to coping with today's teens. This short but thorough book profiles forty-five diverse youth and young adults, all of whom voice their opinions and provide advice for other youth living in LGBTQ households. When a boy confides in his friend about bullies saying he doesn't have a real family, he discovers that his friend's parents — a mom and a dad — and his two dads are actually very much alike. Complication is not always bad, but in terms of acceptance by society, in terms of understanding by others, it just keeps getting even more complicated.
In this instance, Chris used mathematical analogies to illustrate why he would be hesitant about coparenting. Based on my interviews with lesbian, gay, and bisexual people, I have shown that thinking about parenthood can be a deeply ethical process. Imagining becoming a parent made the men and women I spoke with mindful of different caveats that came with specific methods of creating families.
Considerations of the multiple avenues to parenthood were informed by a child-focused approach that presented the interest of future children as paramount. But keeping the notional child in mind did not necessarily help with eliminating certain options of family building as less child-centered.
On the contrary, it turned the men and women in different directions depending on what exactly was understood by child welfare. The men expressed highly ambivalent attitudes toward surrogacy—a means of reproduction that made the prospect of having children appear problematically consumerist and that was seen as giving limited control over the process of creating a new life. The inability to feel fully responsible for bringing a child into the world, and the need for reliance on others, was also a downside of organizing a coparenting arrangement.
Reluctant to reflect on their own later life prospects, the men and women seemed to avoid thinking of children as potential care providers. Concerns about the environment were also more consistent with recognizing the needs, and the growing numbers, of children in care.